It’s true what they say: it takes a village to raise a child.

And if that child is lucky, doting grandparents are part of that village.

See, grandparents do more than just babysit when moms and dads need breaks or have work. They’re equipped with years of experience in child-rearing, and wisdom that will be instrumental in both the child’s upbringing and the parents’ approach to navigating the wonderful yet oh-so-challenging world of parenthood.

Who better to provide gentle guidance for new parents than those who raised an entire generation? You can also see just how much joy grandparents and grandkids bring into each other’s lives. The bond is unlike any other, and the moments shared are just too precious words. That’s why if you’re fortunate enough to live in close proximity to your parents, encourage your kids to get to know them and spend time with them. It has a ton of benefits, trust us. And we’re not just talking about you getting that much needed break.

Here are ten reasons why kids need their grandparents.

10. Experience brings wisdom.

Notice how previous generations married and had kids young? Makes you wonder just how they did it. Life was much simpler back then but parenting sure wasn’t any easier. Grandparents never seem to run out of nuggets of wisdom to share with their grandkids, and sound advice to pass on to the parents. Experience is a wonderful teacher, and we’re fortunate that we get to benefit from this.

9. Grandchildren are much happier with their grandparents around.

Is it because certain things are okay with them? Things mom and dad don’t usually allow? Could it be the gentle, loving way they guide and teach? Grandparents have a way of making life simpler and happier for their grandkids. Research even tells us that a close relationship between grandparents and grandchildren play a significant role in decreasing symptoms of depression for both. That’s why kids jump at the chance to sleep over, and dread the goodbyes when mom and dad pick them up.

8. Grandkids love the comfort grandparents bring.

It’s mom and dad’s job to guide and discipline. Because of this, misunderstandings typically ensue between them and their kids. The frustration and resentment kids feel are assuaged by the sympathy and empathy their grandparents show. No, this doesn’t mean grandparents immediately side with the kids and disregard the parents’ teachings. It’s just the simple fact that grandma and grandpa’s hugs and soothing words are enough to ease the tension and heightened emotions. This then encourages the kids to actually want to sit and listen. Amazing.

7. Kids can learn more about the family tree.

It’s always essential to know about one’s family. History is always so interesting. Fortunately, grandparents have photo albums and what-not to show their grandkids – visual aids that make storytelling much more interesting. Learning about family connections together is a great way to bond, too.

6. It’s simply a winning relationship for both.

It must be exhausting for grandparents to watch over playful, active little ones or answer question after question. But do they complain? Not at all. In fact, there rarely are signs of exhaustion and exasperation. That’s because the relationship between grandparent and grandchild is fueled by so much love. The joy both feel around each other is unexplainable, and that’s definitely something to treasure and cultivate.

5. Grandparents know how to get us to lighten up.

Forgetfulness? Graying hair? Slowing down? Who says these things are to be dreaded? Aging gracefully doesn’t mean keeping the outside looking good. It’s taking care of what’s inside and making sure a whole lot of humor is involved. Laughter brings life and simplifies everything else. What better way to feel good about yourself than by learning to laugh off the things the world teaches you to regret?

4. Kids find great friends in their grandparents.

The generation gap doesn’t seem to hinder anything when it comes to this bond! Sure, grandparents aren’t in on the latest fashions, music, gadgets, but they sure are willing to learn. This eagerness makes kids feel good – because there is a genuine interest in the things they love and they get to really show others what they like so much about it. And because there’s a lot of teaching and learning involved, the relationship just becomes more solid over time.

3. Grandparents are amazing role models.

Grandpa’s way with cars, his photography skills, his fashion sense… grandma’s incredible cooking skills and green thumb, and the way they just carry themselves with class… it’s just what the younger generation needs to see. They learn, they are inspired, and they know these ideal traits are worth embodying. No tutorials needed, because grandparents are amazing at practicing what they preach.

2. They are our safe place.

Scary world? Tough times? Head on over to grandma’s and let the warmth of her company and all that she has to offer surround you and appease your anxiety. Grandparents are comforting. They aren’t easily swayed by the chaos of the world. They’re pillars you can lean on anytime.

1. Grandparents bring a whole new meaning into being taken care of.

For one, they make sure you never go hungry. They patch up holes in your clothes, whip you up something familiar and comforting, offer sound advice, and always have a bed ready for you at their place when you feel like crashing. They take care of you like no one else can. Nothing in this world can compare to how gentle and patient grandparents are when it comes to tending to their grandkids’ needs.

Kids need their grandparents. Growing up is a lot less scary with them around. When things are a bit rocky with mom and dad, grandma and grandpa are there to serve as anchors. When life gets too overwhelming, grandma and grandpa know just what to do and what to say to make you feel safe again. So the next time you see your grandparents, be sure to thank them for all they’ve done for you. Don’t forget that tight, warm hug, too!

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Source: Fatherly, Brain-Sharper